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Sunday, 25 October 2009

  • When all is well, there will be hell.

    When she was contemplative, she liked to rhyme. She never had figured out why. It's not that she liked reading or writing poetry, she just like to rhyme sometimes. It always surprised people, like they didn't think she was smart enough, or witty enough, to do something like that. Not that she was dumb. Just not the smartest either. She like to say that even if she wasn't the brightest crayon in the box, that she was most certainly glow in the dark. People who knew her agreed. She had always thought she was kind of special, in the mental disorder kind of way, but she never could figure out if the people around her agreed.

    She felt lonely a lot, as if the world wasn't big enough, and at the same time was to big to capture her. She liked to go running in big open spaces like parking lots and fields, and then falling to the ground and staring at the sky. Doing that made her feel small, like she was insignificant. She liked that feeling. Feeling tiny was always an interesting sensation, like the world was swallowing her, and letting her sit in it's stomach for eternity. At other times she liked to stand and tower over ants and other bugs and hold herself in lordship over them, feeling powerful and dominant. She always tried to be kind in her rule, though, and would let them keep going on their business and never let them know that she held their lives in her hands.

    She thought about dying a lot. She wondered if people would be sad if she were gone, if she would be sad if they were gone. Life was an interesting conundrum that she was never sure if she wanted to solve. "Life's a bitch. The question is, is she your bitch." She said that a lot too, she had a lot of sayings. What would it feel like to die, to not be alive anymore. Would it be sudden, or was it like fading away? Did the actually dying hurt, or was it just the way you died? If she was going to kill herself, she always wondered how she would do it. According to statistics, she would probably shoot herself in the head while sitting in a bathtub. But to be honest, that didn't sound like much fun. No, she wanted it to leave her intact so that if they wanted there could be an open coffin. No, she would take something sharp and run it up the vein in her left arm. That's what she would do (she would do it on her left arm because she was right handed and it needed to be a straight line, so that it would look okay after they stitched it up).

    Even though she thought about it a lot, she didn't think she had the guts to do it, or that she really wanted to do it. Thinking was enough. Carpe Noctem. That was her motto. Seize the night. She had a lot of reasons for it, but really, it just sounded cool. Instead of slicing her vein open, maybe she would just get a tattoo, line running parallel to the vein, with her motto at her wrist, always to remind her to "seize the night" not to let the night seize her. Sometimes, when she had a bad day, she would take a marker and draw it on, always careful to not tell anyone the real reason why. People like to worry, and she didn't want them to worry about her. She was going to be fine. One day, she felt sure she would get there. But for now, she had her rhyming, and her sayings, and could run in open spaces and think about death, and she would draw on her arm, and keep her secrets.

    When all is well, there will be hell. She hoped that wasn't true.

Thursday, 02 October 2008

  • Isn't it interesting how as time goes by the young blame the old, the old blame the young and nothing changes while both still look to yester year when things were as they should be.  The old remember the time before television and how you went outside to entertain yourself, and the young remember the time before i-pods when you had to listen to commercials on the radio.

    Both talk of how much the world has changed, and who should be blamed, and how much farther we have to go before things are right in the world again.  Methods are argued, we move to fast, we move to slow.  Expenses are argued, we spend to much, we don't spend enough.  But in the end, all agree that time moves quickly and all feel the sense of urgency that we may not have as much of it as we desire.

    Being classified as among the young, I can sense the moving of time and ache to feel and know every second of it.  When I was little, my parents would have company come to the house, and I remember hating to go to bed before they left because I might miss something.  I am still afraid of that.  What if something happens and I miss it?  What if it is important?  What if?  Many of the old say that the young do not have years ample enough to have regrets, that we have not lived sufficiently.  I disagree. 

    When I was a child all the universe was my own to do with what I wanted, and I could dream worlds of mermaids in the bathtub and eat my peanut butter and jelly sandwiches in the shape of a heart and still gasp with delight when my grandfather cut my apple in half to reveal the star that was hiding inside of it.  The bad was soon forgotten and my greatest joy was to run and embrace my father at the door when he came home from work and rejoice when I was the first to reach him.

    I look back and I just want to go back to a memory and put it on repeat and play it over and over and over again.  I want to feel every second like it was happening for the first time, because I know that it is soon gone and I will never feel that way again.  Those memory's have past me, and I feel their loss deep within my soul.  I regret losing the chance to know that moment more intimately, to absorb all that it wishes to bestow upon me for that chnce is soon gone, never to be recieved again.

    What questions could I have asked?  What wisdom could I have gained?  Why was I not old enough to sit at my great grandmothers knee and beg her to bestow upon me her life.  And yet, I was not, and that moment has passed and her 100 years are lost to me.

    Now, the world is not that way, and it feels that evil has pervaded all and the joy no longer comes like it used to.  I regret and mourn that loss immensly, knowing that I can never expireience those joys the same way innocent way thay I once did. The stages of ones life are many, and that one has drawn it's final curtain, bowed out for the last time.

    Yes, the world has changed, yes there are still regrets and blame to pass off and memories to try and recapture.  But outside is a great and wonderful world, and here I sit, mourning the loss of one that can no longer be.  Time passes quickly, there is an urgency, and I must experience the joys as they come, before they pass me by.  The joys may not be as simple, nor the memories feel quite as sweet, for time has not had it's way with then yet, but the rushing creek calls to me, and the stars urge me, and I must obey, for all to soon the curtain will fall, and the chance will be lost to the pages of history.

    Lieben Sie Mich

Thursday, 25 September 2008

  • You know what I have realized?  I really hate it when beautiful people make themselves look unattractive, be that on purpose or just out of ignorance. It really isn't that much harder to look good than look bad.  I mean how hard is it to cut six inches of dead hair off the bottom and giving it some shape, and then wearing some clothes that fit and don't have front butt?  Is that really that hard?  Showering everyday, brushing your hair, cutting your toenails, are these things really that far out of reach?  Are they that difficult to obtain?

    Enhancing your personal beauty to show just how gorgeous you are is not a bad thing, and it isn't superficial.  You see it in yourself, your friends see it in you, but unfortunately some of the most brilliant people I have ever met do not make a good impression which is something that is vitally important in this post modern world.  Sometimes you want the whole world to see what the people you love see.

    I personally am a big fan of makeup, and I have gotten a lot of flack for that because for a lot of people that I know, makeup is seen a superficial.  But what I love about makeup is it is so easy to take it and use it as a tool to show someone how beautiful they are.  That is what I want to do with my life.  I dearly want to take women and girls who have experienced a lot of hardship and show them that they are still beautiful, that they still have so much to offer.

    That is what I want to do, I don't know if I can make it happen, but I'm willing to try.

    Lieben Sie Mich

Tuesday, 29 July 2008

  • Can you be related and still be friends?

    I want to be my sisters friend, not just her sister.  We used to be friends, then a few years ago she went through a  really rough patch and basically stopped talking to me, and then we found out our mom was sick.  She was my best friend and now I feel like we are just sisters.  I want to be her friend but she hasn't talked to me about stuff that matters in so long that I don't know how to do it. 

    I miss her.

    We share a room (when I'm not at school), we share clothes, we share a bathroom and beauty products but thats it.  All that we share is superficial and it makes me lonely.

    I don't know how to repair what is broken, I don't even know where to start, I don't know if she feels the same way, I don't know if she wants to be friends or if she's happy the way things are.  I'm not.

    In the last 4 years my life has been turned around and upside down and inside out and now I'm so confused that I can't find the way out and it scares me.  But I do know that I miss my sister.

    Lieben Sie Mich

Friday, 25 July 2008

  • I want to write, but I have nothing to say.
    I want to speak, but I have no words.

    Everything in our society boils down to words.  The arts, interpersonal communication, our thoughts- all are words.  We are a culture that relies heavily on the spoken and written word.  If you look around, all nations, all cultures, all peoples have words. Words and language go back as far as cultural memories go.  To the best of our knowledge all of our ancestors spoke languages, and I am not talking about speculation, but actual facts about our ancestors.  Some might argue that early man used grunts, but event these grunts were a means of communication.  The closest modern equivalent to grunts is the African language "Xhosa," or the click language, but even then the clicks have meaning, they still are speaking words. 


    Why do we have words? By the third verse of the Bible, God spoke. Only 42 words into the oldest written document in the world, God spoke.  Is that why we use words, because He does?  We are made in his image, so it would make sense that we are also made in his communication style.  Even later, God continues to speak, and then when He makes us disperse, He confuses our language.  He changes our words.

    Our words are the way that God chooses to diversify us, He changes our language and then lets us do the rest of the work.  He picks something that will effect us drastically and then allows us freedom to change everything else.

    I'm really interested in your opinions on this subject, what do you think of words?

    Lieben Sie Mich



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